And guys on here get so bent out of shape when we voice our opinions on how we feel unwanted by men, especially black men. Like we’re a last option. And I’ve experienced this in all walks of life. This wasn’t just an isolated incidence. That way of thinking is prevalent. Regardless of the opinions of 50 or even a 100 black men on tumblr. Folks get on here and act like they forget how the real world operates and thinks and then points the finger at us when we voice frustrations. And this is not to say all black men feel this way, but I come across more that do than don’t. And many women react the way these women did because they’re conditioned to think they are a last option, if an option at all. It’s so sad to think we believe someone is lying when they pick us first. Sorry for all the commentary on your video, Walker.
I think it’s sad that as I watched this video as a black woman I was also very surprised that he prefers black women. It’s so unheard of nowadays for a black man or any other type of man to say they prefer black women. It is refreshing to hear that we are wanted (even though I know some men want us). It is just so rare to hear that we are wanted. I feel like I have been conditioned to feel less than or only good as the second option or the last resort (especially because I am a darker skinned black woman). I wish more men that preferred black women would stand up and be heard like this guy so more black women would understand that we truly are desirable as companions, girlfriends, and wives and not just as sexual fantasies. There are men out there that really want us.
Hello ladies n’ gents! I have a shirt design over at Threadless up for scoring. You’ve been waiting for me to release shirts, right? This is the most affordable option for you and me right now (for a full color shirt).
I’d be so ecstatic if you’d go comment and vote on it, the more comments and the higher votes i get the more likely it’ll be printed. If i win the grand prize i’ll be sure to give some of these shirts away. ♥ ♥ ♥
(It’s really crucial i get good comments and votes within this first 24 hours or it’ll be taken down from the contest! Please spread the word.)